Dan and Jennifer discuss not responding to messages in a timely manner when online dating. A lot of men are terrified and want to play it cool so they don't come across as desperate when dating online. If a woman writes you a message, don't hesitate to immediately respond to her message. A woman who sends you a message is interested and you should take advantage of it. Don't listen to what your buddies say. If you want to date a woman and don't respond to her message, some other guy might and she may just end up going out with him instead.