How to Pick someone up in a bar

Think your stunning good looks are all the charm you need? Maybe, but having a plan of action doesn't hurt. Learn how to pick someone up in a bar with this how to video. The dating world can be tough, so pay attention.

You Will Need

* Confidence

* And the ability to improvise

Step 1: Approach the person

Approach the person you want to pick up. Have good posture– your walk must convey confidence.

Tip: Read a newspaper before going out so you'll have conversation topics ready, just in case.

Step 2: Introduce yourself

Introduce yourself with a simple "Hi." Research shows it's the most effective opening line.

Step 3: Focus on other person

Keep the conversation focused on the other person; people love to talk about themselves.

Tip: Use the other person's name. As communications legend Dale Carnegie once said, "The sweetest sound in any language is a person's name."



Step 4: Keep things light

Keep things light. Surveys show that people are drawn to a good sense of humor in a first encounter.

Step 5: Move on

Gauge the person's interest after a few minutes; if he or she keeps looking away or backing up, move on.

Step 6: Swap numbers

Swap phone numbers. Of course, if you're really hitting it off, you won't need to.



Fact:

Half of club-goers report having had a serious relationship with someone they met in a bar.